When young women are sexually assaulted, we question their pasts and critique their clothing choices, yet rarely ask their attackers to simply be accountable for having no self-control, and no respect for the humanity of the girls they’ve violated.
When middle school girls post half–naked photos of themselves on Instagram, we vilify and ostracize them as cheap and easy, while ignoring the dozens of young men who mindlessly vote their approval each time, who feed the insecurity, and who perpetuate each degrading act with the click of a mouse.
When high school girls get jobs at chain restaurants, which require them to expose their body parts to strangers over trays of nachos, we bemoan their lack of humility and class, yet never question the thousands of men who fill these eateries every day; many with daughters the same age as the ones they ogle.
When women embarrassingly writhe on poles for a few sweaty dollar bills, in dimly lit bars ironically called “Gentlemen’s Clubs”, we heap insults and judgement on them, yet let the many married men who pay both the dancers and the mortgage each month, come and go without blemish or critique.
Sooner or later, we need to stop letting boys be boys, and we need to challenge them to be men.
Sooner or later, we need to pull them out of their perpetual adolescence and into adulthood, and ask them to evenly carry the weight of sexual standards.
Sooner or later, we need to show our young men that the they can actually raise the moral temperature in sexual situations, not reflect them.
People still think the ark happened, guys
The past five days have been hell, but I can proudly say that I am free from my abuser and safe in my own new home.
Radioactive- Imagine Dragons & Pompeii- Bastille
HOLY MOTHER OF
oh my fucking god this is so good
DEAR GOD. I THINK I JUST DIED AND WENT TO INDIE MUSIC HEAVEN
THAT TOOK ME .04 SECONDS TO REBLOG
Holy mother of God! Can’t wait to see I.D. On my 18th birthday!
COULD NOT HIT THE REBLOG BUTTON FAST ENOUGH.
Fuck you for hitting me.
Fuck you for continuing to attack me when I tried to run, and fuck you for screaming threats at my family while I was on the phone trying to get help.
Fuck you for breaking my things.
Fuck you for making me homeless.
Fuck you for lying to the police.
Thank you for showing me who you really are.
Tonight was the worst night of my entire life.